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Discussion in 'Debates' started by Snærhjarta, Aug 11, 2014.

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Would you take that pill?

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  2. No

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  1. Snærhjarta

    Snærhjarta Well-Known Member

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    Imagine scientists found a way to remove any sexual fetishes and kinks. Let's say it's a pill. Society pressures anyone with fetishes to take this pill, to make them "normal". Once you take it, you will no longer feel attracted to these things, you will only want to have vanilla sex or watch vanilla porn (no hentai, just real human beings) which will be just as amazing as all this kinky stuff once was to you.

    Would you take this pill and why?
     
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  2. DameKathryn

    DameKathryn Well-Known Member

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    I think it would depend how many people were taking the pill and how society was pressuring. If it was the law absolutely or heavily pressured, I wouldn't take it because that's suspicious. If basically everyone was taking it of their own free will, I'd consider it because it would be horrible to have a partner who didn't understand me. But if only some people were taking it, I wouldn't because that's pretty much how society is right now.
     
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  3. BigBadWolf

    BigBadWolf lmnop

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    There would be no difference afterward, as you would still have sexual attraction of some sort. In that case it wouldn't matter.
    But our attractions are part of our personality, the way we were raised, our experiences. And with that, the hypothetical pill would be destroying my personality, which I feel people like. So no, I would not take it.
     
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  4. Exeter

    Exeter Cuddly, Snuggly, Slutty Dragon

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    Your fetishes and kinks develop pretty early on. The things you're going to be most attracted to become ingrained very early in your sexual development, and generally hold true for the rest of your life. In my case, the first things I felt drawn to, and to this day the things I'm most excited about, are big cocks. I've refined it and honed it and discovered limits on it, but it's my most primary sexual attraction. I've even found ways of fulfilling it (Dildos!!!!). I don't think I'd be willing to give it up. I still find my vanilla sex great and I really have no desire to do anything more than ride my boyfriend til the day I die, but having this single solitary "fetish," if you can call it that, has always lead me to sexual satisfaction, and opened many doors for me. It's how I discovered I'm a furry, and it made me a lot of friends, which is how I figured out I was sexually and romantically attracted to men. I think this fetish of mine is too integral to my character to give up. :)
     
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  5. Snærhjarta

    Snærhjarta Well-Known Member

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    I've got a huge list of fetishes but I would not take a pill like that.
     
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  6. GuyStripes

    GuyStripes An automatonic shark pirate

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    Oh fuck no.

    I enjoy my strange kinks and fetishes. There's no way I'd voluntarily switch to boring, regular sex.

    I'd rather be alone than conform.
     
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  7. Willow

    Willow Slut and proud!

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    Nope, nope, nope.
    Now if every single person took it, that'd be a different matter. I'd pretty much be alone and couldn't have the kinky sex I crave... I'd have to take it. The porn market would be drastically cut down and I wouldn't have access to what I watch... I'd have to take the pill to get an enjoyment.
    If this was optional and only a few people take it. Ok, I can understand. But I like my kinks.

    Although this does kinda relate to an issue. Hormones. I took female hormones for a year which really cut down on my sex drive. But I didn't mind. It was actually nice. Mood improved (except for 2 days out of the month) and wasn't thinking or wanting sex (also boob growth and weight displacement). I didn't feel sad that I wasn't getting hard twice (or four) times a day. Pleasant.
    I will probably go back on them at some point.
    Mght just startk with black cohosh, dong quang, wild jam, alfalfa, and saw palmetto. They support estrogen, progesterone, anti-androgen production without having to actual take direct hormones. We'll see.
     
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  8. Vael

    Vael Active Member

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    No, I'm already forcing myself to adapt to society standards too much so I'll stick with my preferences on this particular topic. And how could them know that you don't have "normal" aspirations?
     
  9. Dracoa

    Dracoa Well-Known Member

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    I would ask why I was being offered it. There would be no point.
     
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  10. Kaiyodei

    Kaiyodei vaguely coherent

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    I guess if I could only get off on shota or loli con, I'd want a pill.
    but I just get off on the idea of trolling people with shota or loli con. which should require a pill. I've gone dark.
     
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  11. Chelseapolitan

    Chelseapolitan Don't dream it, be it!

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    Noooooo. Never have been susceptible to peer/society pressure. I like what I like waaaaaay too much......

    There is a certain fetish (which will remain in my mind only) that I really love. It's gotten me off more than anything but I feel guilty for it. Nothing too terrible, but still. Maybe, possibly.... I would take the pill just to rid that fetish.
     
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  12. Reptile

    Reptile Semi-Professional Butthole Spelunker

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    Well if this is the case I don't much see the point.
     
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  13. MurphyAlter

    MurphyAlter The Floofiest

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    I don't think I'd take the pill because I imagine for most people their fetishes aren't just standalone aspects of their personality, but tied in with other aspects. The reason I'm into certain things has to do with other things that happened outside of my sex life at some point.
     
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  14. Misskin

    Misskin http://www.furaffinity.net/user/misskin/

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    I did not even consider this.
     
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  15. CreativeNameHere

    CreativeNameHere Active Member

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    Nope. I would not even consider taking that pill. I like being able to explore every aspect of my sexuality.
     
  16. Sheep

    Sheep Pluviophile

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    Hard to answer.
    Why get rid of a kink? by definition these do not cause distress. If the fantasy is understood and no one is getting harmed non-consensually, then what harm does the interest have?

    A pill to 'fix' paraphilic disorder, on the other hand, would be of some benefit. These and paraphilia to a lesser severity still cause an upset in one's life.

    (I stand by a split in definition, as kink and fetish are often used interchangeably, but are very, very different psychologically. Kinks are interests that are not determined by the brain as a 'need' whereas fetishes or paraphilia are, and are more along the lines of a disorder rather than a fun thing we indulge in occasionally. I have a variety of kinks. I have three -philias/fetishes. They are extremely different. Exchanging impact play favors is a kink to me, whereas my attraction only to adults for the entirety of my life is a fetish and had caused great distress in my child/teenage years, although has no negative impact on me now.)
     
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  17. Bucky'sBestGirl

    Bucky'sBestGirl "Fate, up against your will..." - The Killing Moon

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    I definitely wouldn't take any pill that would change any aspect of who I am, especially my sexuality. I have many, many kinks that I enjoy when I have days where vanilla sex gets boring. It provides variety. It'd be like eating nothing but peanut butter and jelly sandwiches every single day. They can be downright glorious when I'm craving one, but sometimes I don't want a PB&J...sometimes I want matzo ball soup and cheesy latkes, sometimes I want lamb gyros, and sometimes I want a giant bowl of tikka masala that will make my head explode and leave me panting, on fire, and wanting more, more, more. XD
    So no....no way in hell would I take a pill, even if it meant exclusion from society. I'll go live on a secret island with all the other kinky people and have my fun there, lol! You can't tell me that secret kink underground wouldn't spring up, like they always do in repressed societies.
    Who I am, sexually and otherwise is just too important to me to give it up for something as stupid (to me) as societal acceptance.
     
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  18. scalie

    scalie back pokin' snake

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    even if there was a pill there would always be people with hidden fetishes

    P.S. tentacles all the way \o.o/
     
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  19. Robert Thompson

    Robert Thompson Reaper of Fallen Toys, Porn King

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    I would like a pill that makes people tell you their fetishes
     
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  20. flapper72

    flapper72 Well-Known Member

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    If I could get back into all the stuff I'm currently into then I would take the pill. When I was new to some kink it was sorta magical and I would like to relive the excitement it originally created. However if that couldn't be guaranteed I wouldn't do it.
     

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