Indeed. I'm so glad my long-term partner understands that I can love and adore her (and have for over 20 years!), and still enjoy dating other people, and still need alone time and want my ridiculously huge silidicks. I just wish she could understand why I need
so many.
The really terrible thing is how
bad most guys are at sex. I'm really starting to think that most guys don't really like sex. I mean, if you like something, don't you study up on it, practice it, and try to get better at it? In fact, I think most guys are deeply angry and resentful at their own sex drives and the ludicrous things it makes them do, and they transfer that anger and resentment toward women; in the process, they decide they're just going to be bad at it, because it's not really worth the effort.
This is a confusing time for men. There are many bad role models. Not to mention both men and women that up hold old social norms which only damage them further.
That was sweet of them. My veterinarian's office sent us a condolence card when we lost our cat, complete with a picture of her. We all greatly appreciated the gesture.
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