The "Bad Mood" Thread

Lately, around my cycle, my tits have benn hurting SO bad, that I am fairly certain this isn't normal ...? Any other gals care to chime in here?

I need to wear a bra 24/7, and even the very slightest touch or bump can be tear inducing :/

 

So my bank called to ask if I used my credit card four times at a 7-11 yesterday.

Spoiler: Did I?

I did not.

 

I hope you asked them to lock your card.

 

They did it without me asking. They were like "Ok, yeah, I already pressed the button to deactivate your card"

 

Good on them. You haven't lost any money I hope. ):

 

Today just keeps getting better.

Car died while driving down the road. We got it new in January 2013.

Luckily, it wasn't too far down the street from the house, and I was able to start it again and get it back to the driveway.

 

It's official. My parents are getting a divorce. Man, this shit really do sucks.

 

I'm really sorry to hear that It's something I've become pretty numb to. My parents were always divorced, my whole life, and my mom has been divorced again since I was a kid. And she lived with my stepdad the last 7 years or so. And now?

My parents split up too, they're living together and seeing other people. My mom is angry that my stepdad is dating a younger woman, so young in fact that she lives with her parents. She hasn't seen him in a week as he's been off screwing around with her.

My point is, I might not understand your exact situation, but I understand what it's like to see parents split up. I understand it a bit TOO well.

 

I'll just throw my 5 cents from the other side - I think that however bad is this, the divorce is still better for them and for you, especially if they were toxic to each other. My parents are, but they can't take a divorce for many reasons. And it's really taking a toll on me, seeing them yell at each other and rant at the slightest disagreement or issue.

Sometimes the divorce or separation is just lesser evil. A cost you must endure to maintain better physical health.

 

@Exeter Thank you. I guess it's true what they say, even if you try your hardest to prepare for something you're still not ready for it when it comes.
That doesn't sound like fun at all. They can't get their own place or anything?

@vahaala Yes, I would say this is the lesser of two evils. It's been like two hours maybe since they told me how it was going to be. Now I'm just sitting here trying to process the whole situation to the best of my ability. I wish I could say it was going decent at least.

 

I'm literally convinced I'm a giant shit bag who can't get anything right in this world and just is doomed to keep fucking up I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO IN THIS SITUATION FUCK.

I don't even have anyone to call and talk to even though I know i'll break down crying. I just fucking...UGH now im sitting here till tomorrow thinking 'oh god im such a piece of shit wow look what i did'

 

Feeling really shitty...alcohol is not the answer, but what the hell I can't do anything else right, might as well drink my sorrows away

 

I may not be around later, but what's up Vel?

Like Exeter, I'm also numb to divorce. My parents divorced when I was ~2 or so (well-planned parenting *eyeroll*) It caused a ton of issues growing up. At the very least you're an adult and won't suffer that fate, but it still sucks. Sorry man :/.

@PrincessGustopher is this about your "friend?" From the sounds of it you should forget him. He's trying to bring you down: That's not what friends do. Leave him alone for now, but give him a chance to redeem himself (if you want, that is up to you.)

 

I've just been feeling bad about myself and solving it with alcohol and answering craigslist adds for sexual favors...

 

No it was just a dumb argument that happened between me and my girlfriend. She tends to go offline instead of staying to work out the issue and I got really upset. Luckily she did come back online so we fixed it and things are fine but I just got upset since she's been a bit miffed I messed up my sleeping, sleep a lot and haven't been online when she is (we have 3,000 miles between us and different time zones so trying to get things to work out is hard but we manage) and I tend to not understand somethings she types and she has an issue of wording things really bad; it was just a huge case of miscommunication today that got me upset.

As for that friend he hasn't spoken to me but to my gf and has basically been lying and we're done with him so he's no longer an issue in our lives now.

 

Yeah I'm just getting out of a stint of that as well (well, the feels anyway, not the craig-alcohol mixer.)
What is the cause? (Sorry I'm slow, lots going on atm.)

Good! And glad you worked out the other issue. Don't be so hard on yourself, alright?

 

Just getting really annoyed/upset at people.

 

Get away from them, block them out, minimize contact. If you must deal with them, do it after a good night's rest. I don't have m(any) details on the real situation here, but if people are the problem, stop dealing with them. If you must, do so as little as possible.
Being so upsetting that they drive you to drink is quite a sign.

 

Fuck... Hope the little shit rots in big boy jail.

http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation-now/2015/10/06/boy-11-charged-murder-girl-8/73433082/

 

Saw that yesterday