What Is On Your Mind?

I smell like oak... not a bad smell, not amazing either. now if only I was working with black walnut instead...

 

Opinions needed.

There's this girl I'm friends with benefits with, but we haven't done anything in a while after a big argument. We've only had sex once, the reason will come in later in this post.

We just recently started talking again, and she says she wants to start having sex with me again. Which is fine, except for a few things:

-Her legs and pelvic area get very sore after sex, and stays that way for a couple days.
-She's allergic to latex.
-She's tight to the point where, according to her, it feels like she's being split in two if I have as little as two fingers in her.
-Her jaw, arms and hands, and legs constantly cramp which basically eliminates blowjobs, handjobs, and most positions.

Really, the only thing we could do is me going down on her. Which is really one sided and unfair to me.

I've tried giving her advice. Go out and buy a dildo or some other toy to stretch and experiment with positions. She says no.

I've tried suggesting she finds someone who'll have unprotected sex with her, as I NEVER have sex without a condom. She says no.

I've told her I don't want to do anything with her if the above are a constant factor, that it just takes the enjoyment out of sex.

She doesn't listen to my suggestions, and I've told her unless she figures something out herself, she's basically shit out of luck. What is everyone's opinion on this situation?

 

Yeah my day yesterday sucked too.
Good news though, my friend @Chatters finished my OC refs for my dragonsona pair, and she did such an amazing job

 

And why exactly do you have sexual relations with her?

 

Currently, there are no relations between us. None active anyway. Think of them as "pending".

 

BOOM! suddenly rain, like a lot of rain

and boom, suddenly no rain. for as short as that was the street is completely flooded

 

I'd avoid that situation completely. just too much weirdness and a chance of hospitalization from allergies or an accidental oregnancy waiting to happen

 

If you cant have sex with her, then dont have sex with her, i guess.

 

Just drop her. Plain and simple. She is, as you said, shit out of luck.

 

Huh... I've got scratches on my forehead...

Where did I get those???

 

honestly I would stay home! Sometimes things don't always line up, and that's okay! I hope the days they go you'll have your own variety of fun!!

 

I'm super happy you like them so much!!

 

alright big spider in my bed, we can do this the easy way or we can do this the hard way... the choice is yours... so what's it gon' be?
(+1 internets if anyone gets the reference lol)

 

Fuck spiders.

 

Hawt.

 

Considering checking out a haunt or two.

 

Watching the top gear Africa special. I want their jobs! 3 friends driving around a foreign country for no real reason and getting up to lots of shenanigans, all while getting paid huge amounts of money

 

Thanks for the input ladies and gents.

I've given her advice and explained why I didn't want to participate (not wanting to hurt her, and not being able to fully enjoy sex). I've done all I'm comfortable with doing, hopefully she'll figure something out. Just not with me.

In other news, shitty night's sleep. Time for my morning run, back home for an omelet, then get ready for a busy day of driving around town to basically interrogate people who don't want to return my calls or answer my emails.

 

When I manage to get a disposable income, that's what I wanna do, just roadtrip across loads of countries. I need friends to come with though.

 

We'll see how adventurous i feel when it gets closer I guess...