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  1. Velixer

    Velixer The Musical Draconic Muse

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    Stop at 7:40
     
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  2. Velixer

    Velixer The Musical Draconic Muse

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    In other news, I'm so tired of my work....
     
  3. doit666

    doit666 Forever confused

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    I feel your pain...
     
  4. Jazzi the Pegasus

    Jazzi the Pegasus Something Original

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    So I have a Skype date (eventually) with the guy I met at the bar. It is a good feeling when you hit it off with someone.
     
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  5. othersounds

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    Good and scary.
     
  6. Wolfcat

    Wolfcat Well-Known Member

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    Just finished reading this article.

    Long ass article, so summarizing:

    It's an article about an old man dying of old age and medical complications in a filthy and unkempt New York apartment. He was found by a neighbor noticing a horrible smell a week after he died.

    The police department is required to alert the next of kin, but the neighbors didn't know any. They found phone numbers and contact info strewn about the apartment that didn't lead anywhere. No relatives came forward to identify him. Medical examiners at the morgue cold-called nearby hospitals to try and find out more about the guy. Nothing turned up. His remains remained in limbo for months while trying to verify his identity. In the end, no one attended his funeral service.

    Eventually old tax return documents, and a will from 1982, were found. His will split his estate / assets evenly among 4 different people, two of which were already dead. His bank account listed two beneficiaries, one already dead. The living were surprised to find they had been included in a will, as most had no contact with him for years.

    Of the people that knew the deceased (one, really) they claimed that despite spending parts of the last 15 years of him, he "didn't really know him." He mostly stayed home, secluded in his apartment. And he never got too personal. Did not really live life.

    I'm just sad this sort of thing happens; it kind of hits close to home. It's where I used to be headed. I don't think I'll end up there, now, but I'm only a stone's throw away from it. I'd like to keep moving away...
     
  7. Velixer

    Velixer The Musical Draconic Muse

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    Man, that's some incredible story there Wolfcat.
    It's crazy how well you can go unnoticed when you isolate yourself that way.
     
  8. Misskin

    Misskin http://www.furaffinity.net/user/misskin/

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    The most important letter in FWB is the F = friend.
    A real buddy would care about you getting your fair share and honestly, I'm surprised this girl would want to have anything to do with sex with all those limitations. If it were me I'd put myself though erotic bootcamp to overcome every one of those barriers, but hey, some folks are just Settlers.
     
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  9. SnowLycan

    SnowLycan ☆*:.。.Mahou shoujo.。.:*☆

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  10. Reptile

    Reptile Semi-Professional Butthole Spelunker

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    Today a kid and the kid who bullied him became friends. Bonded over a goddamn fruit roll up.
     
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  11. GreyFoxx

    GreyFoxx Well-Known Member

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    Working on your birthday sucks :/. Well gotta make that paper thou.
     
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  12. Velixer

    Velixer The Musical Draconic Muse

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    I agree, I worked on my birthday last year, I'm gonna try and not have that happen this year.

    Also @Exeter HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!!!!!
     
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    AdorableDurian Well-Known Member

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    Long time no see, friends! :D
     
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  14. Velixer

    Velixer The Musical Draconic Muse

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    Welcome back!!
     
  15. Wolfcat

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    Hallo! Haven't seen you around for a while.

    @GuyStripes Agreeing with Misskin. For the most part, unless you just need a sexual release, the friends part of "friends with benefits," is the most important. The way you put it, it sounds like she doesn't have any consideration for you at all. You've tried to help, and she's saying no to that help (wtf?)

    The constant cramps are weird. They can be caused by lack of bloodflow (most likely,) or perhaps nerve compression or vitamin deficiencies (those would be more constant, not just during sex, so my bet is on the bloodflow issue.) If I had to wager, she needs to start exercising and taking better care of herself. Also, why does she want to have sex if she can't even be penetrated by fingers? She can help herself and buy a dildo (like you suggested) or use her fingers until she's figured it out.

    The tightness could be caused by several things. Her body might literally not know how to relax enough to allow penetration. She can train it through persistence (practicing finger penetration herself and slowly working up.) She might have vaginismus (which is like an exacerbated form of tightness, including involuntary spasms.) It's handled the same way: Start with something small and work up.

    Basically she needs to educate herself on her issues and start fixing them. She can't have sex while physically being unable to have sex. Why is she asking you to have sex?
     
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  16. Grimmyr

    Grimmyr Skitstövel ー!

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    Turn 21 next week. Yippee. Not even that excited. I hate the fact I am getting older.
    Still trying to lose weight, and I was down to 183.2 yesterday but today I am 185.6 as of this morning.
    ???????????????
    Talk about frustrated. I even ate perfectly normal yesterday (not anything sugary, salty, nothin'). :v
    I hate doing all this shit.
     
  17. AkaiKitsune

    AkaiKitsune Boop

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  18. Wolfcat

    Wolfcat Well-Known Member

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    You're 21. Chill out :p. You have at least a decade before your body starts having even minor age related nuisances. 30's are pretty cool, and 40+ is still fine if you embrace a healthy lifestyle.
    As for weight, have you shit today? Eaten / drank anything? I can make deposits in the 2 lb range. And having a mug of coffee and breakfast generally ups my weight by ~2-3 non-permanent lbs.

    Don't worry about the day-to-day so much as the trend. It will fluctuate.
     
  19. GuyStripes

    GuyStripes An automatonic shark pirate

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    Happy Birthday @Exeter .

    @Misskin :To be fair to her, she does offer to take care of my wants. But me being me, I can't

    @Wolfcat : We're just friends with benefits for release, nothing more. Like I told Misskin, she does take my pleasure into consideration, but morally I don't want to do anything if it causes her pain. I've suggested everything you're telling me, but she comes up with an excuse, so there's really nothing I can do. Its all on her, but she doesn't get it.

    @Grimmyr : You can do what I did for my 21st birthday. Instead of going out and drinking your liver to death like most people, I did something statistically less dangerous: skydiving!


    In other news, expect topless Guy pics in The Weight Loss and Diet Thread.
     
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  20. Reptile

    Reptile Semi-Professional Butthole Spelunker

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    Nothing quite like flirting with a woman infront of her daughter whos almost as old as you are
     
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