What Is On Your Mind?

I've used that for lower back pain. It feels awesome on the lumbar muscles!

 

The forums have died at 2:37am CST. The wake shall be Monday at 4:00pm CST

 

Yeah, pretty slow tonight.
I guess everyone is just too pooped to post.

 

Good morning!

 

Good morning!

Busy cleaning lol.

 

Been doing that myself the last two and a half days!

And yes I admit, I live like a bear. LOL


Good morning Kira!

 

Just woke up from a really bad nights sleep. I slept long enough but my head felt like a battlefield all the way through. Blegh, it's not really better now that I'm awake.

 

Feeling really conflicted. I want to go out and explore my sexual side, but I am in a relationship and do not want to cheat -_- I have discussed playing around with others before but she is a very jealous type, she says Maybe threesomes in the future when we are living together but I'm unsure as if it'll ever happen. I want to enjoy life and try new thing's while I am young, but I also don't want to hurt the person I love. Wat do?

 

Well let me ask, in the very near future could you act on your wants?

 

Honesty is the only answer.
if your partner is completely against sharing then there is nothing to be done. You either have to learn to cope with your desires or break up the relationship. Trying to change her mind on a hard limit will only cause resentment.

I know its sad, but just like not everyone is able to whistle, not everyone is able to share their partner

 

^What she said.
My follow up was along the lines of. Well if you can't do this action in the near future then why be worried. If you did have access, you would have to talk heavily and be solidly sure on your partners stance. If they say yes and don't mean it. It's on them.(It's sounds cold but I don't believe in playing games with my partner and vise versa) If they say no, then honor their wishes.

 

You would think that, but I've been chatting since 2:30 with someone...and I really shouldn't be allowed to converse with him.

We come up with things like an aerogel (heatproof material) canoe....just to cook pizza by the heat of a volcano. For science.

I'd mention the second thing, but it horrifies me.

 

Mention it!
I'm just curious.

 

@Misskin She's a bit flippy floppy on it, I know she want's me to be happy, but I also don't wish to hurt her.

@Bluehorizon10 She has said yes before but more of a "yeah whatever, do whatever" but I know she doesn't mean it. And I've been able to do these things for months now, just had to politely decline the offer/s.

I'd feel better about it once I've done it, then I don't have to feel like I'm missing out on life, but I'd have to live with what I had done. I just, idk :/

 

I put in a ticket to BD asking about the shark week sale they have going on...like 4 days ago now. :/

Do they...not want my money or something? lol

 

What she is doing is a very cruel passive aggressive thing for a partner to do. It sounds like you know what's going on, but maybe let her know the seriousness with which you have been considering this so she stops playing games with your aspiriations.

 

It was painful for me to watch.

 

Morning everyone

 

Talk to your doctor. See if you can get into physical therapy.

Pain meds, hot and cold compresses, muscle relaxants, and anti-inflamatories all just treat the symptoms. Physical therapy (when done right) should identify what you're doing that is causing it to hurt, and train you (through stretching and exercise) to not do it.

 

I should not be awake... My body feels cursed with how early I wake up no matter how late I stay up.