How to stretch, and not make a mess (lube question)

Hello!

I've had the anal stretching hobby for a while, and I'm about at the point where I can take a fist with some discomforts. However, whenever I play I have lube (x-lube) going everywhere. It's suggested to use lots, and I do. However, it doesn't stay in place.

I usually play in the bathroom to 'mitigate' the problem, where I usually make a mess to the point where I'm sliding around on the floor trying to get something in my asscrack. Not efficient.

Any tips and tricks you could share with this amateur?

- radix

 

Any kind of x lube, j lube, k lube, fist powder is going to make a mess. It’s just the nature of the stuff. A lot of people put down puppy pads to make cleanup easier or play in the shower and just wash away with water but that does have a lot of sliding around involved.


Besides that u would need to go with a different lube.

I personally prefer Vaseline which has a much different feel than what you are used to but it stays in place and doesn’t make much of a mess. Once you have a coating on the toy and a coating on yourself then you don’t really need to keep adding more. It is not nearly as slick and there will be a lot more friction which I prefer.

it is oil based and safe to use with silicone, most toy makers put a layer of Vaseline on the mold when pouring toys to make removal from the mold easier. Not exactly sure how body safe it is though tbh.

 

i have a towel under me its a towel just for this works great

 

I also use a 2oz/ 60ml syringe to apply the lube, helps controlling the situation

 

If you're mixing your own lube, you could try making it a little thicker (not so runny)