How to train depth?

Do you guys have any tips on how to take toys anally deeper? I'd really love to be able to get a lot of my Chance inside of me, but I can only get him about 6" in, and then it feels like I'm getting stabbed if I try to push any further. I've tried with a couple of toys but each one gets 6" in and i can't go any further as it hurts if i try use a little bit of force. Are my toys just too firm?
Are there any particular toys or practices you can suggest that would help me be able to take my toys deeper? Thanks

 

Unfortunately depth training is not easy nor cheap. You need a smooth gradient of sizes specially on the diameter of the head of the toy, like following through the chance size chart, fully taking one before proceeding to the next. Or looking into a toy like slink from squarepeg would be ideal. I'd recommend going on the soft firmness, having a lot of lube and patience.. On some days my body would simple refuse to go a any deep, other days it was much easier. You are doing right on stopping when feeling stabbed, the toy must bend to go through and you should not fell any pain.

 

That Slink from Squarepeg looks like fun. Would using toys deep like that loosen me up to eventually be able to take my bad-dragons deeper also do you reckon?

 

I believe so, I don't own a Slink, Squarepeg doesn't ship to where I live... But I had an Monster Buck from Exotic Erotics, which is basically the same concept. After taking it it was much easier to transition to a Tyson form me.

 

@grigori
I have already trained with the slink from squarepeg and would now like to take the next step.
would you say you have to take chance (Lsize) in soft or is medium also possible?

i always read that the toys should be as flexible as possible, which is understandable when you look at how the colon is formed.
but i have seen so many videos where people go deep with toys that are not flexible and i wonder how that works.
does the colon then move, i.e. to a straight line, or how do non-flexible toys go so deep?

 

With time I believe you can get your colon to be more flexible and take firmer toys. I think a medium firmness large unflared Chance should be fine, I did train with a medium firmness XL Tyson (an order mistake of mine..), which is comparable to the L Chance size. I would still go for a soft one, that would have made the process more comfortable for me, but it is mostly about your preference, the soft will be really floppy, as reference the medium Tyson still bends a lot.

As for those incredible videos of hilting XL toys that are not very flexible at all, those people are at a professional level. It does require a lot of training. For what I'm about to say, as a disclaimer, I'm not a doctor nor have any health sciences education. Any advice here comes from my own experience and a reasonable level of reading about human anatomy.

To take those non-flexible toys would be the common notion of "straightening" of the sigmoid colon. It comes form a lot of training of both depth and girth, with which will eventually loosen the internal sphincters of the colon, (I believe they are called, Rossi, Moultier and Balli sphincters, if you want to read about). Besides the sphincters you will be loosening the conjunctive tissue that holds the "S" shape of the sigmoid colon in place (think it is called sigmoid mesocolon portion of the mesentery), that will help the colon move around a bit and accommodate the toys that don't bend much. I also suspect that in this training process you will end up lengthening the rectum and the sigmoid as well. To get an idea, imagine that as you will be stretching, even if most of the toy reaches deeper it will be pushing deeper, and so you can't dissociate the process from lengthening effect.

So it is not just straightening the sigmoid colon, there is a lot of stuff happening inside you with the training to accommodate those toys. I'm not qualified to say if this could cause issues or unwanted side effects in long term. But it is good to research and try to get an understanding of this complex body modification.

 

Well put Grigori was gonna fill in some of that info. But you explained it better than i could've

 

There is multiple articles on the squarepeg site that also outlines it a bit as well. As always, if there is any pain you should stop immediately, have patience and go slow. It is very possible to hurt yourself (I've done it) so making sure that you take time with plenty of prep is very important. If at any time it starts to hurt, stop immediately and give yourself time to heal (usually a couple of days) because it is very possible to have a small microtear. Go soft at first, and go up in size and firmness gradually. For example ill start with medium austin, go to another slightly bigger and then maybe a larger toy. I find that many squarepeg toys work well, and several pleasureforge toys work well and are very soft and wont hurt, give you a better experience. Kuduvoodoo is also a very good one that has quite a few small soft toys that are high quality. Good luck and stay safe.

 

I have been struggling with depth for many years now. I have been able to self fist for at least 25 years now and I can take most of the decent sized dildos I see in porn videos (I owned a Boss Hogg for some time). 9.00" around is perfect! My problem is length: I can't take anything thicker than a Slink if it's longer than 10 inches. Transverse colon is the problem: it seems to never open up more. For that reason, I feel very frustraded: I sold my Boss Hogg along with many other thicker dildos that are longer than 10". And I would absolutely love to take such kind of monsters (and wife would love to pound me too with her strapon).
Do you know if it is possible to stretch the "hole" that's at the end of the transverse colon WITHOUT using poppers? I have read that someone think it's mandatory. But I don't do drugs at all and I dislike the idea.