Over Stretching - A problem or not?

Hey all,

So far my biggest toy is the weredog Skylar (M), who I can hilt pretty happily anally. I've purchased an unflared chance (M) and that's what I'll be working on for a while I think. I think it may already be too late, but I was a bit worried about overstretching my ass - the skylar I have is bigger than any cock I'm likely to come across, and I do like bottoming. Does anyone feel like they wish they'd been a bit cautious with their stretching, and their love life with their partner is kinda ruined? Or should I just not care and give into my desire to hilt big horses?

Ben

 

It is natural to be concerned about your long term health and pleasure of your partner(s) however, unless you are being paid for what you do, you should do what gives you the most pleasure. If stretching your ass to the limits of pleasure is what turns you on, do it! Depriving yourself for the pleasure of others won't get you into Heaven nor should you want to save a relationship with someone who doesn't love you enough to allow you to have the contentment of sexual satisfaction. Sacrifice is a different type of fanaticism...and not one that I prescribe to. Put your long term health first, your happiness and fulfillment second, and the happiness and fulfillment of others a close third.

 

Do what you like I love pushing it to the next level I remember when I thought the John Holmes dildo was huge now I warm up with a large Goliath and I’m working on taking as much as my 4xl ogre as I can. It’s my ass I don’t care what anyone else thinks about it lol.

 

If you stop toying, over time your hole will tighten up. The toys you use now will seem too big, and you'll need to re-train yourself to take those toys again. Your sphincter is a muscle that can expand and contract. I don't think it's a worry for 99% of people unless you are really pushing extremes, and literally changing your body with the giant size of the toys you use.

A medium Chance is not going to change anyone's body. Even an XL Chance probably doesn't do that. I'm talking about 'traffic cone' size toys, and even then, it's likely that your hole will go back to how it used to be, if you stop using toys that size.