I don't like calling gender an identity to begin with. I don't like saying "I identify as male" though I know a lot of trans people do use that phrase and embrace it. I don't see it as an identity. I see it as this: I'm a guy. No big deal. xD
In the case of trans people, however, a lot of the time throughout their transition they will get misgendered and have to make a point of telling the person doing so that they would prefer to be addressed with a certain set of pronouns. In that instance, saying, "hey, I'm a guy, so please use he/him/his pronouns" is pretty commonplace. It's an unfortunate situation because it does set them apart (and sometimes subject them to discrimination), but in order to make themselves feel validated, sometimes they have to make a point of it. It's tough and in those cases it is important to understand why people do feel the need to label themselves.
The first things people notice about another person is gender and race. Unfortunately, on top of that, so much of society is incredibly gendered. I agree that it would be nice if everyone could just be themselves if 'male' and 'female' never existed, but they do exist. I don't necessarily agree with how some trans people use it as a label just to gain attention or set themselves apart as a special snowflake, though. It's not something that needs to be glorified. It just is. Just like being gay or asexual or whatever. It's doesn't make you special or different. You're just another person, really.
The only issue is that those who do identify anywhere on the LGBTQ spectrum are still looked down upon, discriminated against, objectified, abused, and sometimes even killed for who they are. Everyone needs to see each other as what we are: Humans. We're all just people. No one should be treated any differently, any better, or any worse based on their gender, race, or sexual orientation. Everyone needs to just be on equal ground already. I don't think it's possible... at least not for a long while yet, but there you have it - my long winded explanation for why we can't just not have labels, as much as I agree how nice it would be.
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