Fellow XL/M dildo users, lend me your eyes! Just recently got an XL/M Chance Flared on this site from a very friendly user who I would gladly buy from again. Went to try it but the issue is I CAN'T GET IT IN! Now I understand the size of this beast but I do train up with my XL Nova before even attempting it since atleast with the nova you work up to the largest point instead of starting with it. I've only been able to get this thing in once by luck and I wouldn't even call it once since I took it out not long after because the cumtube wasn't set up. My real issue is this: because of the length it makes it very unwieldy. I can't shove the head in or lower myself down onto it unless it's sturdy which it definitely is not, even as a medium firmness. How do you guys get around this? All replies very appreciated, thank you for even taking the time to read this post.