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Sex drives in winter

Discussion in 'Help, Questions and How-To's' started by Vitani, Jan 27, 2015.

  1. Vitani

    Vitani Tertiary antagonist

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    Okay, so I've been having this problem...and it's called, my mind is still super horny, but my body is all like 'nope lol'

    I know a lot of it has to do with being cold as hell in this house since it is so poorly insulated, and where I live, the winters are really rough...it's not going to be above the teens this week in terms of degrees...

    But...has anyone else had this problem where their sex drive is just not up to par in the winter?

    is this normal, or am I just getting old and bored with life? Or maybe I just suck, idk.
    I have the desire to, but my vage just won't get wet, and sometimes even lube doesn't help...the sensations themselves are also waaaay duller, and it's depressing me :C
     
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  2. Reptile

    Reptile Semi-Professional Butthole Spelunker

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    wow that sucks, never come across anything like that before.
     
  3. Exeter

    Exeter Cuddly, Snuggly, Slutty Dragon

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    I get it. I also enjoyed working out at home until it got so cold in the house that I actually couldn't bear to spend time downstairs without laptop keeping my legs warm.

    Decreased sun exposure cuts down on your Vitamin D synthesis. Take some supplements and you might see your mood improve?
     
  4. Wolfcat

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    Old and bored with life @ 23? I hope not! Silly cat :p
    I think you're on to something about the cold being the culprit. The first thing I do when it's toy time is pre-heat the room until it's warm enough to be nude.
    Unsupported hypothesis as to why you might be experiencing this: The cold makes you uncomfortable, causing stress, and makes it hard to get aroused. Arousal is not on your "bodies' mind," no matter how naughty your thoughts are.

    I know it's cold as hell over there, but can you keep your room (whichever you spend most time in) warm? That might do the trick. Otherwise, it might just be some form of "winter blues," as nothing kills the mood faster than being down (stressed, anxious, etc.)
     
  5. Vitani

    Vitani Tertiary antagonist

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    Ahhh, thank you ;; I thought I was broken or something :C

    I did a little bit on an internet research (but I always take that kind of stuff with a grain of salt) and it mentioned something about the vitamin D...Come to think of it, I was taking it in the early fall, and November was some of the best sex I ever had. I stopped taking it though (I'm bad at remembering things x.X) so maybe if I get back on it things will start going back to normal again? Deff worth a try :)
    Thank you so much.

    And @Wolfcat
    I DEFINITELY think part of it could just be the winter itself...I find myself sleeping way more than I normally do, I'm a lot more lethargic, and being groggy isn't exactly a turn on. xD
     
  6. Wolfcat

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    ^right I didn't even think about vitamin D in the winter. Good call! @Exeter I think we were both on to something about it being based on mood (which you indirectly implied via the vitamin D suggestion.)
    My toying has been very... infrequent lately as well. I've not been feeling my best, I suppose, and perhaps winter has something to do with it (there's other things I know have to do with it, but ignoring that.)

    Dr. ExerCat Prescribes: Vitamin D, relaxation, and heat :3.
     
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  7. Samson

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    :(
    I haven't been in much of the mood either, cold and just generally lethargic
     
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  8. Vitani

    Vitani Tertiary antagonist

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    Good to hear I'm not alone in this...even though it does suck...

    Here's hoping our sexual appetite comes back with the warm weather!
     
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  9. Exeter

    Exeter Cuddly, Snuggly, Slutty Dragon

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    So it looks like everyone needs to take some Vitamin D ^^ And yes, you're right @Wolfcat I was trying to imply that. I guess I forgot to include the sentence "Vitamin D is often suggested to improve mood and help produce neurotransmitters that you need for your seratonin to make you happy."
     
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    Icestar Transformers!

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    i managed to take on L Crackers last night, after a couple weeks not toying. im a winter person (SNOW!) but i guess theres psych stuff in it
     
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  11. Wolfcat

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    That's a different kind of "Vitamin D," Ice :p
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    (vitamin D-ick)
    *runs*
     
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  12. Exeter

    Exeter Cuddly, Snuggly, Slutty Dragon

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    I rarely get frisky at all, but when I do my body won't accept anything either, but it's definitively worst in winter.
     
  14. LucarioZer0

    LucarioZer0 Guardian of Aura

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    I hadn't really thought about it, but my drive has dropped a bit recently too. It is more or less the time of year for colder weather here, so it may very well have an effect.
     
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    Wow, I thought it was just me! All winter long I've been going crazy wanting to go out and cuddle and fuck and suck and all that, and my dick's just been like, "Nope, what, motherfucker it's cold outside. I'm hibernatin'. Call me in April." I even got a subscription to Viagra and there were times when like, grief, couldn't get it up with a crane. But I wanted to. The woman I'm dating now is so freakin' hot. What is up with that?
     
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