I currently have a couple of ordinary classic dildos, Real Rapture 10" and 11". I Get long silly orgams from the big one in my butt while using a vibrator. But they are nice and all, but very firm as classic dildos usually are. I feel I could go bigger if they were softer. I imagine that a softer one compresses while passing the anus and splinchter while expanding slightly when inside filling me up better. With my current main one there is a ridge at the head that isn't to nice to my splinchter while pulling out. It is a bit worse IRL than it looks in the pictures. I imagine really soft dildos may have lots of texture without creating these hard to pass "hooks", and I still want texture. My current main one is quite wide at the middle and slightly narrower further in, that bulge is even wider than it is by the ridge and it feels real good when I manage to pass it. Maybe it does not look much, but the dildo being firm makes that "small" difference really nice. So I want it to have a wider part somewhere in the middle. But not as sharp or wide that it becomes a knot or plug, I want some in and out action at a decent speed after all. I have been looking at Mr Hankeys Firehose since the head seems awesome. But due to corona the Firehose is nowhere to be found in Europe. So currently I am considering Mr Hankeys Dragon instead, that might be even better, the wider middle part seems perfect. Besides, the Firehose might not be enough anyway since it is comparable in width with my current one, while at the same time being softer. So I need someone to confirm my ideas. 1. Can I take bigger dildos or dildos that has sections with greater circumference if they are soft? 2. Is it likely that the texture on the Dragon, despite looking quite intimidating, is gentler than the firm and sharp ridge (hook) on my current one? Even where the texture is the most pronounced on the Dragon it seems to be gentler slope and less of a hook. 3. If there is a large differnece in how big I can go if I go soft, which size should I go for? Warming the dildos to body temperature, warming up and sitting on it in the right angles takes my main dildo balls deep. 4. Is there another soft dildo that might be even more right for me that is sold in Europe? Made an image where the dildos are to scale, as well as one can do in paint.