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Discussion in 'For Sale' started by rhattus, Sep 11, 2018.

  1. HighlandMistress

    HighlandMistress Member

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    Okay idk why It didn’t notify me. But I did say I want the bruiser and vamp. I’d only be interested in getting the whole lot with the bruiser. Hence why I stated I’d definately be interested in bruiser and vamp and just wanted clarification on the other model. I wasn’t told to swap to pm and since the rule changes and sales have to be worked out in the comments I was waiting. But I was first in line for bruiser.
     
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  2. rhattus

    rhattus New Member

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    I'm sorry that this situation occurred! I did wait an entire day to hear back from you before responding to the other user who expressed interest, when you didn't stop by the thread again/PM me in the meantime I assumed that you'd lost interest. I admit, I misread your comment saying you were definitely interested- in your first comment, you said "maybe" which is why I didn't assume you were ready to make a decision. While the reading comprehension failure is definitely my fault, ultimately I feel that I did wait a reasonable time before responding to the second offer.

    (Posted here for posterity, also sent as a response to your PM)
     
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  3. HighlandMistress

    HighlandMistress Member

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    Replying here as well.

    I feel as my comment was misread and no response was given to tell me to pm that it is entirely reasonable to inform the other buyer that a mistake was made. She is a mid and I was following the rules put into place. The rules state to work out a sale in comments so I didn’t send a ok as they say not to until a sale is agreed upon. I didn’t want to be in trouble and try to follow rules out into place. I did say in my second response that I did want the bruiser, vamp and slimline. I felt that was entirely reasonable of a response and was just waiting on your go ahead to tell me to pm but never received it.
     
  4. FuschiaDragon

    FuschiaDragon Well-Known Member

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    highlandmistress had already said she was interested in purchasing the legacy bruiser, among other things, and as such i feel should be first in line to purchase it, regarding current forum rules with replies & waiting to pm :)
     
  5. rhattus

    rhattus New Member

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    I wouldn't have told you to PM or put the toy on hold until I'd heard back about whether you wanted the third toy you asked for clarification on, regardless of my misreading of your comment. It's definitely an unfortunate situation- I wish I could produce a second Bruiser and let you both have one!- but at the end of the day, I feel that having waited 24hrs with no response from you, I was within my rights to offer it up to another buyer.
     
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  6. HighlandMistress

    HighlandMistress Member

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    I feel like when a buyer says they definately want 3 toys you would pm or tell them to as you had to everyone else. Hence why I stated I expressly wanted those 3. And followed forum rules. I think they are awful rules that lead to this. But I was following them.
     
  7. rhattus

    rhattus New Member

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    I still feel as though the onus was on you to check the thread in a timely fashion (I responded to your inquiry within minutes, so there was plenty of time to see that you were not the last commentor regardless of whether the forum notification went through), however since Bruiser has not yet gone into the mail I have PM'ed Zaphora to ask if they will accept a refund of their payment.
     
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  8. FuschiaDragon

    FuschiaDragon Well-Known Member

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    highland i believe was just waiting on you to respond with a request to pm, having stated interest in buying already.
     
  9. rhattus

    rhattus New Member

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    @HighlandMistress : I contacted Zaphora and, unfortunately, they are not willing to accept a refund. I do feel bad that this situation occurred but I don't think that I was unreasonable to offer the toy to another buyer after having waited a day for your response, nor do I think it's unreasonable that they're declining to take a refund in lieu of the toy. I understand that this outcome is not the one you were hoping for and I sincerely apologize for the disappointment, but I will be standing by my decision.

    (PM'ed to you as well)
     
  10. GammaTheDickNiffler

    GammaTheDickNiffler Jet Propelled Antichrist

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    See, this situation is precisely why I give potential buyers, starting with whoever replies first, the benefit of a full 24 to 36 hours to reply, depending on if the selling is for a dire need or not....life happens and buyers can't always immediately reply, especially due to work or other obligations.
     
  11. Zaphora

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    Bruiser received
     
  12. DivineAngel

    DivineAngel Beginner Sinner

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    Hello! I'm interested in the Vibratex!! perhaps $10? and is the slimeline G wand still free if i buy a toy?
     
  13. rhattus

    rhattus New Member

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    Hmm, I really was hoping to not go below $15 for that, since ten bucks would pretty much just cover shipping + Paypal fees. And yes, the slimline vibe is still available!

    (*Edited for clarity b/c I thought I listed it at $20 for some reason)
     
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  14. DivineAngel

    DivineAngel Beginner Sinner

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    oh!! im sorry! ill def come back for it when i have enough money!! >:3c
     

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